Day 14 - I'll See It When I Believe It!

You are making great progress.  You feel yourself inspired, excited about the potentials.  You've set a money goal - whether that be $50,000 or $50,000,000 - you've set a goal that should lift your resonance just because the possibility of it coming true is so exciting.  All the exercises including the visualizations, the meditations and affirmations are designed with the same goal - to convince you to BELIEVE that your goal is not only possible, but that it WILL HAPPEN.

In this section, we are going to explore the small little voice that says "It will never happen."  This is the voice that we know is there and are often afraid to address. Frankly, resonating in this high space is quite wonderful.  It feels good to be in a space where an exceptionally prosperous future is a reality, but what if...?  What if  I don't make it?  What if it never happens? Such a prospect carries a lot of weight and if it carries more weight than the belief that I CAN succeed, we all know which part is going to win.

Your determination can also begin to wane as time passes and no tangible evidence shows up in your physical reality. Or, worse yet, things do start showing up that scare you and make you back away from the success.  You have lots of tools already, including expanding your self-image.  But it would really help a lot if that fear voice just went away altogether!

You've decided you want more money.  You also decided a number of other things - perhaps what you don't want:  you don't want to struggle with money again; you don't want to worry about having enough; you don't want to be in debt or that you don't want to worry about whether you can afford something or not. But, your subconscious doesn't understand negatives.  In other words, to say I "don't" want to worry can be translated by the subconscious as "worry" or "want to worry."  You have to program the messages to the subconscious in a way that overrides the old messages and beliefs.  And you have to resolve the conflict that exists between wanting lots of money and the part that says "No."

There's a valid reason why you developed fears that hold you back - even the doubts about whether you will succeed.  The tendency to worry that you'll never be able to change or to fall down and feel sorry because "it just doesn't work for me" is a familiar pattern. To change image and identity to a whole new person - a person who never worries about money and who has unlimited wealth can be a huge stretch into very unfamiliar territory.  It's scary.

Obviously, the first thing to do is address the fear itself.  What is the fear saying? Is it fear of failure?   Is it fear of success cause you might lose the "you" you know?  What does that voice say?  In the exercise below, you will be directed on how to talk and listen to this voice of fear. But, let's also use some logical techniques to alter the conclusion you made - way back when - that "nothing works for me" and the fear that goes with it. 

When you really want something, but are afraid to have it, a conflict occurs. The conflict is between the part of you that is determined to create a bountiful reality and the part of you that believes, based on past evidence, that it "just won't happen."  Obviously, there is evidence in your past of failures, but there is also evidence of success.  Because it is inherent in each of us to do whatever is necessary to avoid pain, a lot of power is given to that fear voice.  If you believe that what you want is going to cause pain, you’re not going to want to go for it, are you? 

Let's say, you decide you want to manifest a new car, but you already know you don't have enough money to buy it.  How does that affect your thinking?  In most instances, your attention diverts to what you don't have.  "I don't have enough money to buy the car."  It's not that you want to focus on the fact that you don't have enough money, but because you fear it, you find yourself thinking about it.  Another example is you do a great job imagining you already have the car. You think about it and get excited about it, but as soon as you look at your checkbook, your logic kicks in and you find yourself saying "I don't have enough money."  Your focus is redirected to thoughts and feelings of not having enough.

So, how to break this vicious cycle!  One of the best things you can do is to focus on what makes you feel good.  All of the visualizations and meditations in this course are designed to build your resonance to a high frequency of happiness, excitement, enthusiasm and to keep it going as long as possible. You can focus on what makes you feel good and allow the emotions to take over.  Emotions are powerful generators - even more powerful than beliefs. When you focus on what makes you feel good, the emotional energy of those feelings builds and creates a magnetic frequency that attracts things in that same frequency. Does the idea of having great riches bring you pleasure? Does it make you feel good?  If so, focus on feeling good.  In that way, you are doing two things:  you are resonating on the "feel good" energy and you are not lying to yourself or creating internal conflict because all you are doing is affirming that you FEEL GOOD.  You can do this exercise when visualizing or meditating by just thinking about what you want.  As we've been discussing, just think about what you want, visualize yourself in the situation, and self-talk about your feelings this imaging brings. Slowly and  subtly, the idea imprints in your subconscious and emotionally, you can alter your feelings to one of “go get it” instead of “you can’t have it.”